Before beginning the review, I just wanted to state that I love the actor who played Nathan, Asa Butterfield. He also played Ender in the sci-fi movie, Ender's Game.
One issue discussed by the movie is the
complexity and challenges faced by an autistic child. The main character,
Nathan is an autistic child and on top of his disease, he is also faced by the
problems of the average teenager. These problems include peer pressure,
relationships and family issues.
An autistic child has a very complex mind
and is also very fragile. The way they think is very different and is on a
different level compared to the average human. That level may be above average
or below average. Even so, they are still people who have to face problems
similar to normal human beings. The way they deal with these problems may be
different due to the absolute fact that they are autistic.
In Nathan's case, he has been extremely
affected by his father's death but due to his autism, he deals with the tragic
death very differently. While others tend to be closer to family members when
facing a death, Nathan has distanced himself from his mother even though his
mother is in dire need of comfort from her only son. This may be because he has
difficulty understanding other people's emotions and how other people's
behavior may actually imply a different meaning.
An average teenager is also plagued by
feelings of attraction towards the opposite gender. Although Nathan is not an
average teenager, he is still affected and very significantly influenced by his
feelings towards Jhiang Mei, a girl from China. He is confused by the feelings
he has never experienced before and is unable to identify what it is even
though he senses the changes in himself due to these emotion. This influence is
proven when he is willing to hold hands and communicate with Jhiang Mei even
though he was strongly unwilling to make any form of body contact or
communication in the past.
Peer pressure also plays a major role in this
issue. Peer pressure has succeeded in affecting almost every teenager
worldwide. A person may feel the need to conform to what people in his
surroundings do with the sole reason to fit in and to be considered a part of
the community. Nathan has problems with understanding his peers and therefore
has difficulty to be a part of them. He does not conform to what all other
children his age are like. It is not the issue of him being unwilling. The
issue at hand is that he is unaware of what to conform to and how he should
behave in order to be accepted by his peers due to his autism. Proof of this is
that he is clearly seen eating alone at recess every day and unable to communicate
properly with his schoolmates.
I am extremely interested to know more about
the way an autistic person thinks and how they perceive love and friendship.
They have a different way thinking and I believe that this may not be a bad
thing.
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